tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post813399914823760328..comments2023-11-03T11:48:56.073-04:00Comments on Passing Whimsies: How To Deal With Anonymous Commenters.SomeoneLikeYouhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00237214680800642077noreply@blogger.comBlogger23125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-89359018059238328882013-09-02T23:46:41.267-04:002013-09-02T23:46:41.267-04:00thank's for your information ^___^
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Click www.gofastek.com for more information.<br /><br />Cindy<br />www.gofastek.comCindyhttp://www.gofastek.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-2601157924818459032012-10-28T18:30:05.287-04:002012-10-28T18:30:05.287-04:00I'm sorry you've had to deal with mean ano...I'm sorry you've had to deal with mean anonymous commeners. I've never had mean ones, just completely disgustingly inappropriate ones. I think you've given the right advice though.Patrick Hillhttp://www.goldsilverfactor.com/question-what-is-the-worth-of-a-98-p-silver-american-eagle-without-coa/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-54204961625280276662012-02-01T09:30:19.789-05:002012-02-01T09:30:19.789-05:00I personally stopped allowing anon comments about ...I personally stopped allowing anon comments about a year ago. I agree with what you said- some of the loveliest comments came from anons, but I just couldn't handle it any more. I also got scared of people who knew me in real life commenting on my blog under the disguise of an anon and contradicting things I had said on my blog.<br />I had some really, really horrible anon comments and it just got too much for me. I just can't move on from that. I admire people who still allow anon comments.<br /><br />Charlotte xCharlotte Cantillon (Crowley)https://www.blogger.com/profile/11920677643812511895noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-5721236592110502422012-01-31T12:38:09.702-05:002012-01-31T12:38:09.702-05:00You are so right on everything here Lauren! I usu...You are so right on everything here Lauren! I usually feel like I can laugh the negatives away b/c I think it is so absurd that people get a charge from leaving mean comments in the first place. It really says a lot about their character and who they are as a person. However recently I got a comment on my flickr that was very passive and basically made mention of my chest in a very mean way. "you look old and saggy". Wow, really? I think it's interesting how these commenters never have any bit of information linked back to their profiles. I kindly replied on that one saying thanks for the input but I'm a curvy girl and proud of it. Sometimes I think killing with kindness is the best thing.<br /><br />Anyhoo, I love that you wrote this. It was encouraging to read and so well thought out. You are gorgeous darling gal...both inside and out!!Marisa Noellehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06783735879605619538noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-43350858970628559542012-01-31T09:31:50.492-05:002012-01-31T09:31:50.492-05:00I've gotten some weird and strange anonymous c...I've gotten some weird and strange anonymous comments, they really freaked me out! Thanks for writing this post Lauren!! :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05623118246906724359noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-39667219250724417252012-01-30T23:45:15.121-05:002012-01-30T23:45:15.121-05:00This is great Lauren! I can speak from experience ...This is great Lauren! I can speak from experience that the anon hate is the worst (There was a point in time where I got a great deal on my art blog) :(<br /><br />For me personally I found the best way to deal with them is not reply back to them at all. They usually just want a response out of you, so it's best not to give them that satisfaction. Plus I mean, c'mon, you're really that much of a coward that you use anon to say the dumb things you want to say? Grow up, haha.<br /><br />But your attitude is great, and you're such a beautiful and kind soul so you're definitively above them in every way. <br />I may not comment much but the blog is looking great, keep up the amazing style!Anna M.https://www.blogger.com/profile/11025105270765315050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-30891294596025600732012-01-30T20:06:32.887-05:002012-01-30T20:06:32.887-05:00I completely agree. I haven't really gotten an...I completely agree. I haven't really gotten any mean anons, but I have gotten spam and the like. I think you handle the mean comments very well and very gracefully!<br />P.S. The guest post is up! :)Mirandahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07144137759249181536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-14411719611544982882012-01-30T17:23:36.044-05:002012-01-30T17:23:36.044-05:00Oh and btw... I have mentioned you and used a pict...Oh and btw... I have mentioned you and used a picture of you in my latest blog post. Hope you don't mind.OrigamiGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13363693347175865326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-52478270239031209342012-01-30T15:50:33.416-05:002012-01-30T15:50:33.416-05:00Loved this post. My blog is very young at the mome...Loved this post. My blog is very young at the moment, so I haven't really received negative anonymous comments.. I think if you get mean comments someone is obviously jealous of your success and popularity :D There is always positive side ;)Ulia Alihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15262082611584403756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-83992879103682905042012-01-30T15:14:30.803-05:002012-01-30T15:14:30.803-05:00wonderful post.
i disabled the anonymous button.
...wonderful post.<br />i disabled the anonymous button. <br />i think somedays i could prob. handle negative feedback but in the end it is just easier to not have it.geehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01416380238181766145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-83508093460114618912012-01-30T14:57:42.224-05:002012-01-30T14:57:42.224-05:00I saw your anonymous commenter on sex the other da...I saw your anonymous commenter on sex the other day and was totally confused by it. Why ask a question, but be anonymous so you can't answer it? I would have thought that in normal life you dont ask strangers about their sex lives. <br /><br />Also, I am trying to work out if I know above commenter! I am 23 and called Ruth with a minister for a Dad...Not that I remember the rest of it but interesting co-incidence.OrigamiGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13363693347175865326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-70705820027569873172012-01-30T13:53:12.230-05:002012-01-30T13:53:12.230-05:00I share your opinions on the big s by the way!
I...I share your opinions on the big s by the way! <br />I've never had an anonymous meanie- in fact, I've never had an anonymous apart from one of those, "Link to cheap holidays" or something like that! I guess, I'm not on anyone's radar! <br />Good advice though, bravo! You are wiser and more inspirational than any other person of your age I have ever met (my friend Ruth is similar to you, I think you'd really like each other. She's now 22-3 but when she was 16-7 and I was 25 (doing my teaching training), we used to study together and she was such a good influence on me and we could talk about anything. Did help that her Dad was a pastor!<br /><br />Have a lovely day!!Kezziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15705356707599121605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-13834089959595864962012-01-30T09:19:38.250-05:002012-01-30T09:19:38.250-05:00I just love your insights on everything you write!...I just love your insights on everything you write!!S Beehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14086632353813815161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-10849257514062388142012-01-30T04:22:06.203-05:002012-01-30T04:22:06.203-05:00This is so true...a mean comment can ruin my day t...This is so true...a mean comment can ruin my day too, and sometimes it's hard to post photos if you know there's someone that could say bad things to you. But we have to keep on, right? :)Julhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13811215375979144861noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-73555728216662517002012-01-30T02:20:40.369-05:002012-01-30T02:20:40.369-05:00I'm so sorry that you've had silly mean co...I'm so sorry that you've had silly mean comments on your blog! How anybody could think of something mean to say about you is beyond me. I'm lucky enough to have never had a negative comment on my blog but having said that I've only been blogging since August, so I'm sure the day will come soon enough!Kirstenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07535714322213407021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-1532799090426477452012-01-29T23:10:03.261-05:002012-01-29T23:10:03.261-05:00Wonderful post. I also went to the link for your p...Wonderful post. I also went to the link for your post on keeping your innocence, and just LOVED it! So beautifully written, and I agree with every word. I was a virgin until my wedding night, and I am so happy that I waited to share that special experience with my Husband. <br /><br />xoxo, <br /><br />KelseyKelsey Colehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03527193718358218962noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-25858157060228634642012-01-29T21:11:51.795-05:002012-01-29T21:11:51.795-05:00You're practically perfect in every way!
This...You're practically perfect in every way! <br />This post was really nice. Thankfully I haven't had to deal with any "anons." But when I do, I'll know where to go! <br />I wish I could find the time to comment on your blog more. But to make for my lack of love here it is; Your outfits make me want to better the way I dress and you inspire me! Also, congratulations on choosing a school! That must be so exciting. I hope you have fun and I really hope you continue to blog. <br />Have a great day! <br />With much love,<br />Hannah<br />A Little Burd Told Me..Hannahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13758098505442038012noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-32596547074720696882012-01-29T21:00:22.548-05:002012-01-29T21:00:22.548-05:00I'm sorry you've had to deal with mean ano...I'm sorry you've had to deal with mean anonymous commeners. I've never had mean ones, just completely disgustingly inappropriate ones. I think you've given the right advice though.Kathryn from Schoolmarm Stylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088173471960294467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-41724108612988707422012-01-29T20:48:23.208-05:002012-01-29T20:48:23.208-05:00You are so sweet. My blog isn't popular enough...You are so sweet. My blog isn't popular enough to get any mean comments yet...and I almost hope it never gets any bigger just to avoid that issue. Thanks for the reminder that it doesn't have to destroy your self esteem. <br />LOVE your linked post, by the way. <br /><br /><a href="http://lifeinanutshell18.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">life in a nutshell</a>leah jeanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01458550157604211027noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-7548928811379863262012-01-29T20:22:05.140-05:002012-01-29T20:22:05.140-05:00Wise, helpful thoughts and words. Also just read t...Wise, helpful thoughts and words. Also just read the link you posted to your thoughts about sex. I really admire that you have stuck to your morals and are not afraid to admit it. Society puts such an unnecessary precedent on sleeping around and getting laid, and the pressure this puts on young people to just get rid of their virginity is really deplorable. While I think it's important to live in a tolerant, sex-positive society (meaning we should have public discourse about the fact that sex IS happening whether we like it or not and keep people aware of their options), there are limits and people's individual choices should be respected on both sides of the equation. There is nothing wrong with not having sex. Smart girl, you really and an individual and I have a lot of respect for that! <br /><br />CharmaineCharmainehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13401894609161419194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-67311488816232204552012-01-29T19:36:50.208-05:002012-01-29T19:36:50.208-05:00I think this is amazing, Lauren.
I know how sicken...I think this is amazing, Lauren.<br />I know how sickening of a feeling it is when I see a rude, anon comment pop up in my 'to be moderated' box. <br /><br />The best thing I've found to do is, the second I can tell it's less than kind, just delete it that way I can't even read the words or obsess over them.<br /><br />If it's constructive criticism, I'll usually publish it and reply in my own comment box.<br /><br />Again, amazing post, and you're an angel.Amber Schmidthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16745947398842286537noreply@blogger.com