tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post6626915984805394796..comments2023-11-03T11:48:56.073-04:00Comments on Passing Whimsies: People Please No More.SomeoneLikeYouhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00237214680800642077noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-13960406823440257032011-06-05T15:51:57.404-04:002011-06-05T15:51:57.404-04:00Lauren, you are fab! I really needed to hear what...Lauren, you are fab! I really needed to hear what you just said. I have been feeling really insecure about some things for the last couple of days and the need to please people, feeling a bit depressed-even at the age of 30 (only 19 in my head really!). There's only one person we ought to want to please really and he's watching all the time. He loves you as you are!Kezziehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15705356707599121605noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-50712988055575808892011-06-05T07:53:49.994-04:002011-06-05T07:53:49.994-04:00I agree with the above....you DO have people who l...I agree with the above....you DO have people who love you and want you, and I'm sure you are yourself around them :) I know what it's like to feel that you have to try and please people to be liked, so I applaud you for vowing to be more true to yourself. I wish you the best of luck, and I'm sure it will be a great sense of relief :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-3163307223933486652011-06-05T06:37:25.438-04:002011-06-05T06:37:25.438-04:00That was beautiful.That was beautiful.b.outlandishhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12606491187755281719noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-36572084065270820712011-06-05T02:28:25.630-04:002011-06-05T02:28:25.630-04:00:) First of all, to echo Shady Del Knight, there&#...:) First of all, to echo Shady Del Knight, there's already a BIG group of people who do care about you so, so much. And it's pretty clear that you care about and love yourself too, even if you're still figuring out who you are. Don't be afraid to take risks and make your own decisions, no matter how unpopular they may be. You know what's best for you, and even if you don't, you need to learn that for yourself on your own terms. You are a beautiful person inside and out, and I think you are really going places in life!<br /><br />xoxo<br />SophiAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18329920400057382801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-19273168786913882142011-06-05T01:02:40.530-04:002011-06-05T01:02:40.530-04:00I have the same problem with people pleasing, thou...I have the same problem with people pleasing, though it doesn't always have to be a bad thing dear! By no means though should it control what you want to do and who you want to be. Pleasing to an extent is alright but you already have people in your life and on blogger who take you just the way you are and love you for just that!Em [The Writer]https://www.blogger.com/profile/05463226665359314880noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8844733460276130832.post-78034981174223476112011-06-05T00:19:04.223-04:002011-06-05T00:19:04.223-04:00You already have people who want you, Lauren. You...You already have people who want you, Lauren. You have Matt. You have your parents. You have me and your other friends who think that you're terrific for being the sweet, humble, ever questioning person that you are. You're making excellent progress just by realizing that you don't need to be a chameleon, all things to all people. Be whoever and whatever makes you feel most comfortable inside your own skin. You will attract others who can relate to you. You will build confidence over time as you gain experience handling a variety of social situations while remaining true to yourself.Shady Del Knighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03839935472941264414noreply@blogger.com